sueellenb:

     I think I fully realize now how repelling the idea of casual dating and relationships are to me, and how damaging they are.
     I’ve been talking to a young single mom for a while, and she kept trying to hook me up with guys, and in the beginning thought that my views on waiting for the right guy, not hooking up with random people, and my view on casual sex, were all ridiculous.
    But in the past few days, I’ve been drilling her about worth and the real meaning of love, and what it looks like to respect the guy you’ll be with eventually. And now her views are changing as well. The other day, when we were going over some stuff, and talking things out, she told me that she can’t view guys in the same way anymore, because now she sees the truth. And later, in her words, “…the way I see myself now is like, I’m a princess, and it sounds like Disney or something, but I need to value the guy who’s going to be a prince for me.”
     Haha. This is from a girl who a few weeks ago, was telling me that casual sexual relationships were the way to go, and anything else is old fashioned and lame.